My hubby (of eight years) does not love me personally. I will be their housekeeper, joint wage earner, sexual partner, mom of two of their kids but he gets their psychological satisfaction from his 15 12 months old child. Perthereforenally I think so refused and lonely. He (and I also understand we shall be flamed because of this) functions like he could be deeply in love with her. He hangs on her behalf every expressed term, laughs after all her jokes, asks her viewpoint on every thing ( and listens intently). As he is in the phone to her, he talks in a diminished voice, giggles like a teen, he blows kisses to her and informs her exactly how much he really loves her, which he cannot wait to see her. They behave like they have been teenage fans. I will be hidden when this woman is right here. We never ever thought i might take this case. We have always been a grown girl in my thirties and I also really miss shared love and companionship but how to compete? I was thinking this will get easier but they become more of a couple as she gets older. We went on vacation month that is last it had been therefore emotionally draining. He invested the entire time attempting to locate excuses become alone along with her, do stuff with her. If just I could turn an eye that is blind do my personal thing. If only this mess that is wholen’t make me feel therefore refused and unhappy. We decide to try so difficult to love her but I resent her a great deal and I also’m needs to hate him. We’d a row that is massive he decided to go to gather her this weekend. He called me personally sick and disgusting. I’m which he’s appropriate. This really is such in pretty bad shape.
So i don’t think your alone there hmm I don’t really no what to say but 1) your not disgusting or sick it does seem a bit of a weird relationship to me. Sorry we’m to much assist I am sure somebody will soon come along