Instead of asking her exactly what she wishes you to accomplish (women hate that), you will need to evaluate which kind of person she in fact is then trust your gut instinct to state or take action intimate.
It isn’t the end of the world and you haven’t made a huge mistake that will ruin the relationship forever if you try to do something romantic.
Alternatively, you need to be a person by saying something like, “Okay, I guess you don’t like that kind of thing” and then simply try something different the next time about it and have a laugh about it.
Allow her to realize that you’re not concerned if she doesn’t like a few of your efforts at love, as you love her enough to relax and simply see what style of love is considered the most fun for the you both.
Additionally let her know if she just relaxes and lets herself experience it she might find that she really enjoys it that she might originally think that something you do is tacky, old school or unnecessary, but.
For instance: If she actually is the type of woman whom believes that lighting candles when you look at the room and providing her a massage is tacky and within the top, she’s going to most-likely appreciate it when you begin the therapeutic massage.
Then start to relax and enjoy the relaxing experience if you’ve ever gotten a massage before, you will know that once it begins you.
Therefore, simply tell her to flake out and experience it this time around.